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A Lesson From Life

This is the story of a young academically excellent person named Tom. One day he went to apply for a managerial position in a big company. He passed the first interview; the director Alec did the last interview. Alec discovered from the CV that the youth's academic achievements were excellent all the way, from the secondary school until the postgraduate research, never had a year when he did not score.

Alec asked, "Did you obtain any scholarships in school?"

Tom answered, "None."

Alec asked, "Was it your father who paid for your school fees?"

Tom answered, "My father passed away when I was one year old, it was my mother who paid for my school fees."

Alec asked, "Where did your mother work?"

Tom answered, "My mother worked as laundry woman."

Alec requested the Tom to show his hands. Tom showed a pair of hands that were smooth and perfect.

Alec asked, "Have you ever helped your mother wash the clothes before?"

Tom answered, "Never, my mother always wanted me to study and read more books. Furthermore, my mother can wash clothes faster than me."

Alec said, "I have a request. When you go back today, go and clean your mother's hands, and then see me tomorrow morning."

Tom felt that his chance of landing the job was high. When he went back, he happily requested his mother to let him clean her hands. His mother felt strange. Happy but with mixed feelings, she showed her hands to the Tom.

Tom cleaned his mother's hands slowly. His tear fell as he did that. It was the first time he noticed that his mother's hands were so wrinkled, and there were so many bruises in her hands. Some bruises were so painful that his mother shivered when they were cleaned with water.

This was the first time the Tom realized that it was this pair of hands that washed the clothes everyday to enable him to pay the school fee. The bruises in the mother's hands were the price that the mother had to pay for his graduation, academic excellence and his future.

After finishing the cleaning of his mother's hands, Tom quietly washed all the remaining clothes for his mother.

That night, mother and son talked for a very long time.

Next morning, Tom went to the Alec's office.

Alec noticed the tears in the Tom's eyes, asked: "Can you tell me what have you done and learned yesterday in your house?"

Tom answered, "I cleaned my mother's hands and also finished cleaning all the remaining clothes."

Alec asked, "Please tell me your feelings."

Tom said:
I know now what appreciation is. Without my mother, there would not have been the successful me today.

By working together and helping my mother, only now I realize how difficult and tough it is to get something done.

I have come to appreciate the importance and value of family relationships.
Alec said, "This is what I am looking for to be my manager. I want to recruit a person who can appreciate the help of others, a person who knows the sufferings of others to get things done, and a person who would not put money as his only goal in life. You are hired."

Later on, Tom worked very hard and received the respect of his subordinates. Every employee worked diligently and as a team. The company's performance improved tremendously.

Something to think about:

A child, who has been protected and habitually given whatever he wanted, will develop an "entitlement mentality" and will always put himself first. He will be ignorant of his parent's efforts. When he starts work, he will assume that every person must listen to him, and when he becomes a manager, he will never know the sufferings of his employees and will always blame others.

For this kind of a person, who may be good academically and maybe successful for a while, eventually he will not feel sense of achievement. He will grumble and be full of hatred and fight for more. If we are this kind of protective parents, are we really showing love or are we destroying our children instead?

You can let your children live in a big house, eat a good meal, learn piano, watch a big screen TV. But when you are cutting grass, please let them experience it.

After a meal, let them wash their plates and bowls together with their brothers and sisters. It is not because you do not have money to hire a maid. You want them to understand, no matter how rich their parents are, one day their hair will grow Gray, same as the mother of that young person.

The most important things are that your children learn how to appreciate the effort and experience the difficulty and learn how to work with others to get things done.

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